So, I have 3 computers. I only have 2 hooked up. The 2 older ones I used to use bot commander between them with no problems (both running XP). My new computer is vastly better and is running Windows 7. When I run bot commander the computers connect to each other just fine, but no commands actually get sent. Am I missing something?
When you say both are connected fine, how are you "connecting" them and confirming they are connected fine?
Few things to check.. make sure the computer names themself aren't the same. Make sure the uplink names aren't the same.
Either disable all windows firewalls, or open the ports to allow both incoming and outgoing traffic..
Although you said you are connected.. so try this:
relay all -echo testing
Do that on 1 of the older 2, then do it on the new one. If you are actually connected fine, all sessions will output "testing" each time you enter the command. I'm guessing that won't happen in your case..